Using Sports for the Glory of God to Mature Children – David Prince

David Prince has a message about how sports can be used to mature children, specifically boys.  It’s very contra-church cultural from other messages about sports and very much worth your time.  He also expands the topic into a more general theme about how to raise boys.

One of the points he covers is how to deal with kids who sit the bench.  He’s written an article about this called The Glory of Bench Warming

Here are his first five principles he developed for bench sitting in basketball.  You’ll need to read the article to get the other five:

  1. Make sure your posture communicates that you are engaged. Sit on the edge of your seat.
  2. Be the loudest player on the bench cheering for your team.
  3. Leap from your seat every time your team scores or gets a turnover.
  4. Get out of your seat during timeouts and go out on the court and greet the players who are in the game.
  5. Talk only about the game to your teammates on the bench.

This article about Christians in Sports is also worth considering

 

 

 

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Father’s Leadership in the Home – Randy Stinson

Randy Stinson has a great lecture outlining nine principles of a father’s leadership in the home.  They’re summarized below, but you should listen to the message to understand the details.

1. Father’s vision for the home – determine what the family (collectively and individually) should look like or develop into in one, five, ten years
2. Father’s direction for the home – map out the steps for how to reach the vision; what should we start doing and stop doing?
3. Father’s Instruction (let me show you how) – prepare your kids for obstacles to reaching the vision by discussing challenging situations that they’re likely to face and planning for how to deal with them
4. Imitation (watch me) – lead by example, so that everyone else follows you following Christ
5. Family inspiration (isn’t this a great family?) – champion the home because the culture will try to tear it down
6. Family affirmation (you’re great!) – lavish appreciation and encouragement on your wife and kids
7. Family evaluation (how are we doing?) – regularly check to see whether the family is where we said it would go
8. Correction (lets make a change) – if the family is falling short of the vision make adjustments based on the evaluation
9. Father’s protection and provision (I’ll take care of you) – provide for the family and model dependence upon God through difficult circumstances

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Accountability and Confession in Small Groups

Confession is often a big part of accountability time within small groups, but what should we confess and to whom?  Should we air every sin, major and minor, long past and recent present, that we’ve stumbled over?  The primary New Testament verses related to confession of sins are as follows:

  • Then Jerusalem and all Judea and all the region about the Jordan were going out to him, and they were baptized by him (John) in the river Jordan, confessing their sins.  – Matthew 3:5-6
  • And all the country of Judea and all Jerusalem were going out to him and were being baptized by him (John) in the river Jordan, confessing their sins.  – Mark 1:5
  • If we say we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us. If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. If we say we have not sinned,we make him a liar, and his word is not in us..  – 1 John 1:8-10
  • Therefore, confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person has great power as it is working.  – James 5:16

There are generally three views that are taken to apply these verses:

  • Confess sin in a general sense corporately
  • Confess sins to God
  • Confess specific sins publicly to one degree or another (e.g., in small groups)

As background, corporate confession occurs when a congregation repeats a prepared paragraph together.  This is most common in liturgical churches.  An example of corporate confession is: “Most merciful God, we confess that we are in bondage to sin and cannot free ourselves. We have sinned against you in thought, word, and deed—by what we have done and by what we have left undone. We have not loved you with our whole heart; we have not loved our neighbors as ourselves. For the sake of your Son, Jesus Christ, have mercy on us. Forgive us, renew us, and lead us, so that we may delight in your will and walk in your ways, to the glory of your holy name. Amen.”

The Gospel in Matthew and Mark passages wouldn’t apply to the questions at hand because they record the repentance that John the Baptist taught in preparation for Jesus’ message.  John’s teaching is not prescriptive to us, but just recognize as part of his teaching disciples were to state how they broke the law.  The passage in 1 John tells us to confess sins (plural), which would imply that we should be specific rather than generic about where we fall short.  The audience is God because He is the one doing the forgiving.  We do not receive any direction here to confess to others.  In James, we’re told to confess sins, so we’re not to be generic about our overall sinfulness, but admit specific sins.  It also teaches to confess to others.  It should be noted that this passage is within the broader context of dealing with sickness and a need for prayer for healing.

With this background about the NT passages, here is the guidance of others:

  • Tullian Tchividjian has a good post and follow-up discussing accountability groups where the confession of sin is the focus rather than completed work of Christ on our behalf.
  • In it he references Michael Horton’s article on justification, which is much more dense and traces the history of Evangelicism’s slide from the historic doctrine of justification into moralism.
  • Justin Taylor posted Ken Stewart’s thoughts on public confession grounding them in the principle of public sins confessed publicly and private sins confessed privately
  • John Piper’s view can be summed up as the proportion of public repentance should be in proportion to the publicity of a sin or a sin’s effect
  • Tim Challies’ article outlines the need for public confession in some situations left to the Christian’s discernment.  He gives some helpful guidelines about how to confess to God.  He also writes about fearing confession to others more than fearing God
  • Douglas Moo says states: In public confessions, of course, it is the Lord who is the primary “audience, ” for all sin is ultimately sin against him, and all confession must be directed ultimately to him. Moreover, public confession of sin does not seem to be a standard feature of New Testament church life. While its biblical basis is not completely clear, therefore, there is wisdom in the principle that sin should be confessed to those whom it has directly harmed. When the whole church has been affected, the whole church should hear the confession. When one other person has been harmed, we should confess to that person. But when the sin is a “private” one, we may well keep the confession between ourselves and God.
  • We believe that this sincere confession, which is made to God alone, either privately between God and the sinner, or openly in the church, where the general confession of sins in rehearsed, is sufficient;…It is requisite, therefore, that we should confess our sins unto God, and be reconciled with our neighbor, if we have offended him.  And the apostle James, speaking generally of confession, says, “Confess your faults one to another.” (James 5:16).  If so be that any man, being overwhelmed with the burden of sins, and troublesome temptations, will privately ask counsel, instruction, or comfort, either of a minister of the Church, or of any other brother that is learned in the law of God, we do not dislike it.  Like as also we do fully allow that general and public confession which wont be rehearsed in the church, and in holy meetings, being, as it is, agreeable with Scripture.  – Second Helvetic Confession (XIV.4)
  • Examples of corporate confession of sin
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Should Christians Celebrate Halloween?

Halloween generates much discussion among Christians.  Should we ‘celebrate’ Halloween like everyone else by allowing our children to go door-to-door, provide an alternative at church (trunk or treat or All Hallows Eve) or abstain completely?  Here are some articles from each of the different positions.  The Resurgence article is the best place to start for an overview of the issue and Hank Hanegraff’s is short, and well written.

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Theology Book Recommendations from Joel Beeke

In Joel Beeke’s Reformed Confessions, he provides an extensive bibliography with recommendations.  His favorite books by topic are listed below:

  • The Doctrine of God: Knowing God by JI Packer
  • Inspiration of Scripture: 2 Timothy 3:16, 2 Peter 1:21, Thy Word is Truth by Edward Young and Nothing but Truth by Brian Edwards
  • Canon of Scripture: Inspiration and Canonicity of the Bible by Laird Harris
  • Authority of Scripture: Authority by Martyn Lloyd-Jones
  • Scripture’s Sufficiency and Inerrancy: Bible Inerrancy Primer by John Gerstner
  • The Trinity: The Trinity by Edward Bickersteth
  • Deity of Jesus: The Gospel of John and A Primer on the Deity of Christ by John Gerstner
  • Deity of the Holy Spirit: The Doctrine of the Holy Spirit by George Smeaton
  • Creation: Studies in Genesis One by Edward Young
  • Angels: The Ministration of, and Communion with Angels in The Works of Isaac Ambrose
  • Devils: Satan Cast Out by Frederick Leahy
  • Providence: The Mystery of Providence by John Flavel
  • Human Creation: Man: The Image of God by Gerrit Berkouwer or at a more popular level The Christian View of Man by Gresham Machen or Knowing Man by JI Packer
  • Fall: Human Nature in its Fourfold State by Thomas Boston
  • Bondage of the Will: The Bondage of the Will by Martin Luther
  • Original Sin: Original Sin in Volume 3 of The Works of Jonathan Edwards or An Unregenerate Man’s Guiltiness Before God in Respect of Sin by Thomas Goodwin
  • Predestination: John 6:37-44, Romans 9-11, Ephesians 1, Calvin’s Institutes 3.21-24 and The Reformed Doctrine of Predestination by Loraine Boettner
  • Salvation Promises of God: The Wells of Salvation Opened by William Spurstowe (out of print)
  • Messianic Promises: Christ Revealed by Thomas Taylor or at a popular level The Unfolding Mystery by Edmund Clowney
  • Recovery of Fallen Man: Christ our Mediator by Thomas Goodwin
  • Incarnation: The Virgin Birth of Christ by Gresham Machem
  • Christ’s Two Natures: Chalcedonian Creed and The Person of Christ by Loraine Boettner.  At a deeper level, The Person and Work of Christ by BB Warfield
  • Justice and Mercy in Christ: Heidelberg Catechism questions 9-18 and The Commentary of Dr. Zacharias Ursinus on the Heidelberg Catechism
  • Christ’s Sufferings: The Suffering Savior by Fredrich Krummacher or one volume When I Survey by Herman Hoeksema.  For the last week of suffering, The Passion of Our Lord by Erich Kiehl
  • Christology: Christ All in All by Philip Henry
  • Christ as High Priest: The Work of Christ by Robert Letham
  • Christ’s Atonement: The Orthodox Doctrine Regarding the Extent of the Atonement Vindicated by Charles Hodge or popular Vicarious Atonement Through Christ by Louis Berkhof
  • Salvation by Faith Alone: The ABC of Faith by Alexander Comrie
  • Justification: An Inquiry into the Nature of God’s Act of Justification in The Works of Thomas Halyburton or Faith Alone by RC Sproul
  • Sanctification and Holiness: God’s Way of Holiness or Holiness by JC Ryle
  • The Ceremonial Law: Institutes of Elenctic Theology V2 Chapters 24-25 by Francis Turretin
  • Christ’s Intercession: The Knowledge of Christ Glorified by John Hurrion
  • The Doctrine of the Church: The Glorious Body of Christ by RB Kuiper and Calvin’s Institutes Book 4 Chapter 1.  For the most extensive treatment see The Church of Christ by James Bannerman
  • Church Membership: The Duty to Join the Church and to Remain with Her in The Christian’s Reasonable Service by Wilhelmus a Brakel
  • True and False Church: The Christian’s Reasonable Service by Wilhelmus a Brakel
  • Church Scandals and Heresy: A Treatise Concerning Scandal by James Durham or Concerning Scandals by Calvin
  • Church Governance: Biblical Church Government by Kevin Reed
  • Church Offices: Order in the Offices by Mark Brown
  • Homoletics: The Art of Prophesying by William Perkins
  • Pastoral Theology: The Reformed Pastor by Richard Baxter
  • Elders: The Problem of Eldership and Its Wider Implications (Banner of Truth #395-396d)
  • Church Order: Paradigms in Polity by David Hall and Joseph Hall
  • Worship: A Fresh Suit Against Human Ceremonies in God’s Worship by Williams Ames or Gospel Worship by Jeremiah Burroughs
  • Church Discipline: Handbook of Church Discipline by Jay Adams
  • Sacraments: Institutes Book Two
  • Church and State: City of God by Augustine and The State in Its Relations to the Church by William Gladstone
  • The End: Revelation and Behold He Cometh by Herman Hoeksema
  • Heaven and Eternity: The Saints’ Everlasting Rest by Richard Baxter and The World to Come by Isaac Watts
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Spurgeon Quotes about Repentance

As a follow-up on the post about Thomas Watson’s book on repentance, here are some of the best quotes from Spurgeon on the topic from this Spurgeon quote archive:

  • True believers repent to their dying day—they are always repenting. Their life is
    made up, it is said, of sinning and repenting—I will not say that—believing and
    repenting is their life, and sin is the disease which mars it. No time can wear away
    the bitterness of repentance. If a man loses his child, time happily softens his grief.
    Every other trouble yields to time, but this never does
  • True regeneration implants a hatred of all evil; and where one sin is delighted in, the
    evidence is fatal to a sound hope
  • The true penitent repents of sin against God, and he would do so even if there were
    no punishment. When he is forgiven, he repents of sin more than ever; for he sees
    more clearly than ever the wickedness of offending so gracious a God.
  • The mourning of a penitent is not because of hell: if there were no hell he would
    mourn just as much. His grief is not for what sin might cost himself, but for what it
    has cost the Substitute.
  • Beloved, true repentance is sorrow for the sin itself: it has not only a dread of the
    death which is the wages of sin, but of the sin which earns the wages
  • Repentance is necessary in every case; there must be this radical change which shall
    make you loathe what you once loved, and love what you once loathed.
  • O my dear hearers, do ask yourselves whether you have sorrowed for sin because it
    is sin against God; for any hypocrite is sorry for sin which injures himself, or which
    may damage his reputation among men; but the essential thing is to be sorry
    because the evil is a wrong done to God.
  • It is easy to bring a man to the river of regret, but you cannot make him drink the
    water of repentance.
  • Travelers in great storms will tremble, and, trembling, will confess their guilt, and
    begin to pray; but when the tempest is over, their trembling, their confession, and
    their praying are all over. They shake because of their sins, but they are not shaken
    out of their sins
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Resources about Imputed Righteousness

Imputed righteousness is the Biblical doctrine of receiving the right standing of Jesus transferred to us when we trust in Him for salvation.  It means that our sins aren’t just forgiven and transferred to Christ, but the merit of His goodness is given to us as well (referred to as double imputation).  It concept is overwhelming and amazing, so it may take much mediation to understand its implications.  To help you think through the importance of the doctrine the following resources are helpful.  They’re ordered them from the quick fly over of the topic to more in depth study

Sinclair Ferguson’s summary of the imputed righteousness (3 minutes)

RC Sproul’s explanation of receiving Christ’s righteousness (5 minutes)

For more extensive study see:

Additional resources can be found at Monergism

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Quotes from The Doctrine of Repentance

The Doctrine of Repentance by Thomas Watson is a treasure trove of great quotes about turning from our sin.  Some of the best are captured below and a more extensive list is available here (though there are far too many to list).

  • Look upon sin in its nature, and it will appear very hateful. See how Scripture has penciled it out: it is a dishonoring of God (Rom. 2.25); a despising of God (I Sam. 2.30); a fretting of God (Ezek. 16.43); a wearying of God (Isa. 7.13); a breaking the heart of God, as a loving husband is with the unchaste conduct of his wife: ‘I am broken with their whorish heart’ (Ezek. 6.9). Sin, when acted to the height, is a crucifying Christ afresh and putting him to open shame (Heb. 6.6), that is, impudent sinners pierce Christ in his saints, and were he now upon earth they would crucify him again in his person.
  • Affliction can take away life; sin takes away the soul (Luke 12:20).
  • The very day a Christian turns from sin he must enjoin himself a perpetual fast. The eye must fast from impure glances. The ear must fast from hearing slanders. The tongue must fast from oaths. The hands must fast from bribes. The feet must fast from the path of the harlot. And the soul must fast from the love of wickedness. This turning from sin implies a notable change.
  • A man may restrain the acts of sin, yet not turn from sin a right manner. Acts of sin may be restrained out of fear or design, but a true penitent turns from sin out of a religious principle, namely, love to God. Even if sin did not bear such bitter fruit, if death did not grow on this tree, a gracious soul would forsake it out of love to God. This is the most kindly turning from sin. When things are frozen and congealed, the best way to separate them is by fire. When men and their sins are congealed together, the best way to separate them is by the fire of love. Three men, asking one another what made them leave sin: one says, I think of the joys of heaven; another, I think of the torments of hell; but the third, I think of the love of God, and that makes me forsake it. How shall I offend the God of love?
  • Till sin be bitter, Christ will not be sweet.
  • If prayer does not make a man leave sin, sin will make him leave prayer.
  • As the plough, when it breaks up the ground, fits it for the seed, so when the heart is broken up by repentance, it is fitted for remission, but it does not merit it. God will not save us without repentance, nor yet for it. Repentance is a qualification, not a cause. I grant repenting tears are precious. They are, as Gregory said, the fat of the sacrifice; as Basil said, the medicine of the soul; and as Bernard, the wine of angels. But yet, tears are not satisfactory for sin. We drop sin with our tears, therefore they cannot satisfy. Augustine said well: I have read of Peter’s tears, but no man ever read of Peter’s satisfaction. Christ’s blood only can merit pardon. We please God by repentance but we do not satisfy him by it. To trust to our repentance is to make it a savior. Though repentance helps to purge out the filth of sin, yet it is Christ’s blood that washes away the guilt of sin. Therefore do not idolize repentance.  Do not rest upon this, that your heart has been wounded for sin, but rather that your Savior is been wounded for sin. When you have wept, say with him: Lord Jesus, wash my tears in thy blood.
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Puritans Glorifying God in All of Life

Banner of Truth Magazine has short article by Kenneth Macleod on the Puritan view of life and glorifying God.  Macleod has several insightful quotes about living life for God such as:

  • Now if God is ruling over everything that happens, it is glorifying to God to trust him always. Accordingly Thomas Watson emphasized that ‘God is to be trusted when His providences seem to run contrary to His promises’. He illustrated this from David’s experience: ‘God promised David to give him the crown, to make him king; but providence turns contrary to His promise; David was pursued by Saul, was in danger of his life; but all this while it was David’s duty to trust God’ (p. 230). The genuine Puritan sought to trust God in all circumstances, however discouraging; he had learned that the promises are totally reliable, for Scripture told him: ‘God is faithful’.”
  • William Perkins teaching about recreation: “Our recreations must be profitable to ourselves and others, and they must tend also to the glory of God; the end of our recreation must be to refresh our bodies and minds; recreation must be moderate and sparing…”
  • John Bunyan said of prayer, “Prayer will make a man cease from sin, or sin will entice a man to cease from prayer.”
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Faithful church membership

The importance of church membership seems to vary by denomination and church.  Some churches like Capital Hill Baptist restrict access to events like Bible studies to members.  Others only distinguish members and non-members by voting rights for major decisions and rarely press the issue.   Joel Beeke of Puritan Reformed Seminary has a good article about how to be a faithful church member.  9Marks addresses how to approach the topic of membership with those who aren’t willing to commit to membership.  The best three reasons cited for joining are:

  • Obedience to Jesus: The church affirms your profession of faith and has the authority of baptism and the Lord’s Supper
  • The good of other Christians: You become responsible for other Christians’ discipleship and they become responsible for yours
  • Your own spiritual safety: The church will come after you if you wander from the faith
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